FOCM Membership Card Ceremony

On February 23 and 24, 2016, I found myself in Miami attending SCOPE (Summit for Clinical Operations Executives).  It is always fun to attend conferences and see old friends and make new ones.  At this meeting three people received their cards.

The first night, my friend Angela Radcliffe had arranged reservations for 16 at a restaurant’s private room and due to some issues had no RSVPs by 3 p.m. and was going to cancel it.  I asked her to give me an hour and I’d see what I could do.  We ended up getting 20 people and they had to move us to a larger room.  It was a great dinner where a lot of people met each other for the first time and Angela led it by sharing a personal story about what drew her into clinical research and everyone else shared their path to the industry.  It was a really memorable night.

On the second night, we arranged a group go to dinner at Larios, the restaurant owned by Gloria and Emilio Estefan.  That was also a great group of people.  Not in the pictures: Brian Langin, Alicia Foley, David Fairbrother, Amy Zastawney.

Left side: Nick Hargaden, Cindy Howry, Richard Gastineau
Right side: Bonnie Moore, Julie Orr, Dave Kirschenbaum, Kim Assal, Ted Gastineau
Dan Weddle
Laura Peters
Janet Shropshire

Jokes contributed by FOCM Members

So one of FOCM’s members texts me random humorous items.  I share some of them with you today:

What did the ocean say to the sailboat?
Nothing.  It just waved.

 

What did General Custer say at Little Big Horn when he saw the Indians coming?
“Here come the Indians.”

 

What do you call two Mexicans playing basketball against each other?
Juan on Juan

 

The United Way realized that it had never received a donation from the city’s most successful lawyer.  So a United Way worker paid the lawyer a visit in his lavish office.

The United Way guy opened the meeting by saying, “our research shows that even though your annual income is over two million dollars, you don’t give a penny to charity.  Wouldn’t you like to give something back to your community through the United Way?”

The lawyer thinks for a minute and says, “First, did your research also show you that my mother is dying after a long, painful illness and she has huge medical bills that are far beyond her ability to pay?”

Embarrassed, the United Way rep mumbles, “uh…no, I didn’t know that.”

“Secondly,” says the laywer, “did it show that my brother, a disabled veteran, is blind and confined to a wheelchair and is unable to support his wife and six children?”

The stricken United Way rep begins to stammer an apology, but is cut off again.

“Thirdly, did you research also show you that my sister’s husband died in a dreadful car accident, leaving her penniless with a mortgage and three children, one of whom is disabled and another that has learning disabilities requiring an array of private tutors?”

The humiliated United Way rep, completely beaten says, “I’m so sorry, I had no idea.”

And the lawyer says, “So, if I didn’t give any money to them, what makes you think I’d give any to you?”

Wait! What? Men and women are different?

The thought police are here.  Witness this article by John Stossel.

A rather crazy exchange he had with Gloria Steinem years ago:

Feminist icon Gloria Steinem said gender differences shouldn’t even be researched. She told me it’s “anti-American, crazy thinking.”

“Aren’t women, in general, better nurturers?” I asked.

“No,” answered Steinem. “Next question.”

At the time, fire departments had just dropped strength tests to help female applicants. One critic of the change complained that instead of being carried out during a fire, now she would be dragged downstairs, her head hitting each stair. Steinem responded, “It’s better to drag them out … (L)ess smoke down there.”

John Stossel: Men & Women are different

Motivating Quotes

A few good quotes I recently read:
The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can’t find them – make them. – George Bernard Shaw
 
A great pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do. – Walter Gagehot
 
Each time you are honest and conduct yourself with honesty, a success force will drive you toward greater success. Each time you live, even a little white lie, there are strong forces pushing you toward failure.  – Joseph Sugarman
 
The achievement of your goal is assured the moment you commit yourself to it. – Mack R. Douglas
 
and now back to your regularly scheduled activities of watching cat and dog videos on the internet – me, just now.

New FOCM Membership Ceremonies

On February 10, 2016, while attending Arena International’s Outsourcing in Clinical Trials Northern California three people received their FOCM cards.

Adam Kuzmicz, who I have known for 10+ years.  Adam is with Parexel.  The photographer really captured his extreme happiness at this moment.  He later said, it was one of the happiest moments of his life.  At least that’s how I remember it.

Barry Murphy with Novotetch was next to receive his card.  He is a little more in control of his emotions than Adam was.

Donna Fraser with Novotech also received a membership card.  Her joy at the moment is quite evident!

Welcome them to FOCM!

 

Adam Kuzmicz
Barry Murphy
Donna Fraser

In memory of Micah

On July 8, we had to put our beloved Micah to sleep.  It was much too soon.  He would have been 8 years old on July 29. He is suspected to have suffered mesenteric torsion (twisting of the intestines) and was in septic shock.  It has been a devastating loss for us.  He was our empty nest “child”.  I know we all love our pets, but this boy was truly exceptional and led a life full of adventure.  Our hearts are broken.

Micah

Please let me share some information about him:

  • Boy Wonder (our name for him when he was in training to be a service dog)
  • Hello you sweet thing (what Deb said to him every day)
  • He went on over 50 flights while he was a service dog in training.  Many of these trips were personal, but he did also accompany Deb on a few business trips.  He’s been to a couple industry conferences.
  • He traveled to 25 states (from MA to FL to AZ and all the states in between)
  • He was a gentle giant (100 pound chocolate brown Labradoodle)
  • While he did not complete training and go into service, he did become a certified therapy dog going with Deb to visits at an Alzheimer’s Clinic, Girl Scout camp, children’s Library reading program.

We got him at 7 weeks old; Deb signed up with Canines for Service to foster him to become a service dog. Went to training one night weekly for two years, then every other week for a year, then back to weekly for advanced training.  He was placed with a woman with mobility issues.  It broke our hearts to give him up. It wasn’t a good fit and a week later we were asked if we wanted to take him back.  We decided that it was a bonus to get a few more months with him.  When we got him back, he refused to look at Deb in the car on the ride home.

We had a few more months with him and then he went to a facility for 3 months of additional training for potential placement with a veteran.  He became inconsistent and we were again called to be told this and were asked if we wanted him back.  At the time, I was in PA and Deb was in Germany.  Of course, we said yes and I went and got him when I got home from my trip. Deb came home a few days later and I captured their reunion on videotape; he wouldn’t stop kissing her.

When he was bored, he would disappear into a bedroom and come running out with something he shouldn’t have in his mouth to make us chase him.  Or he would take a kitchen towel and run off with it and we had to get to him before he stepped on it and shredded it.  We had a rule, if he had something and there were at least two people in the house, someone just had to shout “need help” and that meant everyone come running to trap him before he destroyed whatever it was he had. Or when bored and hungry he would toss a toy that held treats. He would drop it on your lap or toss it in your general direction and then bark loudly.  So we would go put treats in them for him to shake out.  We began to realize he was training us.

While he was a service dog-in-training, we took him everywhere.  People would come up to pet him and we would often hear a comment about his eyes: “they look so real”, “he has human eyes”, “he’s looking right into my soul”.

Because of his look and his height, if people didn’t guess him to be a Labradoodle, they would  most commonly guess him to be an Irish Wolfhound.  We would tell them he was a Labradoodle, with one exception – if we were asked on St. Patrick’s Day, we would say that yes, he was an Irish Wolfhound.  Once, while in a store, a little girl asked Deb, “Ma’am what’s your pony’s name?”  Another time, I overheard a little girl say to her sister, “mira a el caballo” (look at the horse).

Throughout his life he received exceptional care from Dr. Gerianne Pandolfi and her staff at Four Oaks Pet Hospital.  We truly believe she loved him as much as we did.  He was never afraid to go there.

I think he was meant to be forever Deb’s dog right from the beginning. The love and training she gave to Micah was immeasurable.  The love he gave back was equally immeasureable.

These are some of the commands and things he knew how to do:

  • Touch shut (to close doors, drawers, cabinets)
  • Come
  • Front
  • Side
  • Heel
  • Under
  • Lap
  • Touch light (turn on light switch)
  • Touch dark (turn off light switch)
  • Reach
  • Rise
  • Kennel
  • Off
  • Stay
  • Wait
  • Leave it
  • Belly
  • Paw
  • Crawl
  • Sit
  • Touch
  • Tug
  • Tug open
  • Up
  • Down
  • Hold hands
  • Stand
  • Around (turn around and lay down between your feet)
  • Drop it
  • Give
  • Back
  • Take
  • Hold
  • Hip (to push open a door)
  • Go through
  • Could open a refrigerator and take a bottle of water from the shelf on the door
  • Could pick up clothes, sheets, towels and put them in a top loader laundry
  • Could take clothes out of the dryer
  • Could pick up off the floor: pen, dime, quarter, paper bills, trash, car keys, cell phone, remote control, carry them to you and give them to you or put them where you told him to
  • Could carry shopping bag
  • Wouldn’t eat human food; could leave him alone in a room with food on a plate on the floor and he wouldn’t touch it (I left him in the car with a pound of salmon in the front seat to run into the grocery for something and he was sitting in the back seat waiting for me and the salmon was untouched)
  • And of course when he didn’t feel like doing any of these things, he would just stand there and stare at you as if you’re speaking another language (the look on his face was: you know I can do it, I know I can do it, I just practiced it five times and am not doing it again)

Contributions in memory of Micah may be made to Canines for Service

 

West Coast FOCM Event

So on February 9, I was in the San Francisco area for an Arena International Outsourcing in Clinical Trials conference and knowing that others I would know would be in town for that, I put together an event.  I got in touch with Sue Simpson, friend for 20 years and proprietor of TasteVin Wine Bar and Bistro, located in San Carlos, CA to schedule the event there.  Then, thanks to Facebook, I saw that the one and only Bob Bildner was also going to be in San Francisco and lawd, lawd, lawd, we had us a time.

Present for the event and receiving major attendance reward points for gift items in the FOCM gift catalog (future possibility) were:
Dave Gibboni, Paul Oldfield, Beth Johnson, me, Sue Simpson, Julie Hammack, Brian Langin, Bob Bildner, Claudia Kunzler, Pippa Wilson and Breyona Fenner.  Bob received his FOCM membership card and I don’t know about you, but to me, it looks like one of the happiest moments of his life.

Please note: any card carrying FOCM member receives a 10% discount when dining at TasteVin.  Membership does have its privileges.

FOCM Event at TasteVin

 

 

 

TasteVin San Carlos, CA
The excited Bob Bildner
TasteVin has FOCM certification and seal of approval

Yumans and Nogalesian Join FOCM at Phoenix Event

On February 8, 2016 while living in Yuma, I had a business trip to San Francisco.  Rather than fly out of Yuma, I drove to Phoenix to fly from there.  That seemed like a good excuse to get people together.  So that night, I invited friends in the Phoenix Metro area to meet at Four Peaks Brewing Company in Tempe.

Pictured receiving their FOCM membership cards are: Greg Stanford, who I have known since 5th grade after he moved from Plainview, TX to Yuma; Denise Jones, who I have known since high school and Jorge Pierson (the Nogalesian) who I met at Univ of AZ.  The overwhelming joy on their faces is genuine.  It was another emotional induction ceremony.

Greg Stanford
Denise Jones
Jorge Pierson

FOCM East meets FOCM West

While living in Yuma, AZ in January – February 2016, FOCM was able to pull together a great group of people to celebrate the new office location of Freeman Law.  Tony Freeman, Principal and Founder was having an open house for his Scottsdale location, located at 4248 N Craftsman Ct #100, Scottsdale, AZ 85251, Phone: 480-398-3100.  I’ve known Tony since we were 13 years old, I think.  My twin brother and I were able to contact several  friends from high school and college living in the Phoenix area that know Tony.  Quite a few showed up to the open house.  Another cool thing I thought was that two FOCM members and friends from North Carolina had recently moved to the Phoenix area and so they came and got to meet my twin and the Yuma, AZ Kofa High School alums and I finally got to meet Daniel.  (that was a long sentence)

Heather, me, Sarah, Daniel
Sarah, Heather and Twins
Freeman Law Open House: Kathy Snow, Don Woon, Debbie Ward, Tony Freeman, Chris Matheus, Jorge Pierson, Liza Peralta, Susie Eddins, Jon Matheus, George Aponte